Fucked Up Communication in The Lifestyle
I made a mistake at a lifestyle meet up a while back. I always thought of myself as a great communicator, but this time I dropped the ball. While my wife and I were enjoying some drinks together at the […]
The Hotwife Lifestyle: 5 Question Interview with HotwifeCoupleTX
The Hotwife/Cuckold lifestyle seems to be trending right now. With it being one of the top search terms on Pornhub, you have to wonder what the big deal is about hotwifing. It’s a very commonly shared fantasy among married couples. […]
The Elephant in the Swing Club: Drugs and Drug Use
One of the things we weren’t ready for when we started out in the lifestyle was the hardcore party atmosphere. I’m not sure exactly what we envisioned sex parties to be like, but we both hadn’t been exposed to the […]
Spiritual Sluts: Interview with James and Taara of Sex Uninterrupted
We discovered Sex Uninterrupted through The Sexy Lifestyle Network and on Facebook and Instagram. What stood out to us was Taara’s confidence in her sexuality and ability to embrace her inner goddess slut. (and we mean that in a good […]
How Not To Get Laid At A Swingers Event
We’ve only been at this almost a year and a half, but we’re fast learners. We’ve been to many of the swingers groups, swinger parties or swinger events in the Chicagoland area at least twice or more. That’s not including […]
When Swinging Goes Badly
I’m a researcher. Simple purchases often turn into a month-long ordeals of reading, reviews, and interviewing friends. Swinging for me was not a half-assed choice. If anyone was prepared, I was. But you know what they say; “The best laid […]
The New Hugh Hefner of Chicago: Randall N Mel of Invite Only Chicago Interview
The Midwest is an interesting demographic. No coastal beaches to hang out at, middle of the country, flat lands…and then there is Chicago. The fly over city between New York and LA. Chicago is known for it’s sports, hard working […]
Our NYE Kinky Bucket-List for 2019
We from The Red Couch want to take this moment to thank you for being a part of our wonderful community of married and long term committed lifestylers. There are many groups out there to be a part of, but […]
Reeder N Wade: A Conservative Couple’s Road to Sexual Freedom
Consensual non-monogamy. Swinging. The lifestyle. Whatever you may call this journey makes no difference; the only thing that matters is how it changes you, how it changes your relationship, and how it changes your life. My husband and I were […]
5 Damn Good Pieces of Advice for Swinger Newbies
5 Damn Good Pieces of Advice for Swinger Newbies Although we can’t be sure, we realize there is a good percentage of people that read our blog that might be married or in a relationship and are brand spankin new […]
