The Red Couch is where married, non-monogamous swinger couples come to explore intimacy, connection, and pleasure. With a blend of fun, honest content and real-world lifestyle reviews, we’re the go-to resource for modern couples in the lifestyle.
Written by Lynn: Disclaimer: Not for men that get grossed out easily haha All women have had a moment ruined by an unwanted visitor. And no, I’m not talking about your best friend or that new girlfriend you’ve been meaning […]
I never thought I’d see my wife fucking another man. We met on such innocent terms. I was confident of our love and we had been through so many things together. Not to mention, we were respectable figures in our […]
Apparently the elusive unicorn in the lifestyle isn’t so elusive. Finding some bisexual female time for the wife seems to be a swingers dream. Many couples are introduced to the swingers lifestyle because the wife is bi or bi-curious and […]
Can you relate to this evening scene? Get home from work or driving kids around all day, greet family. Figure out what to make for dinner, put dinner on the table. Try to listen attentively to what happened during your […]
The wife and I recently signed up for a Kasidie paid membership to try meeting some other couples out on dates. While whether a paid membership on Kasidie is worth it or not is another subject, we stumbled across a […]
Lube. If you have sex you need it. We’ve even heard from professional sex therapists that everyone should use lube, every single time when having sex. We’ve never really thought about it, but it does make sense. Even a little […]
The Truth About Judgment in the Swinger Lifestyle Welcome to our three-part series on insecurities, shame, and judgment. If you’ve spent any time in the swinger lifestyle, you’ve probably heard people say something like: “The lifestyle is the most accepting […]
Welcome to a 3 part series on: insecurities, shame and judgement. Shame is generally defined as a painful feeling of humiliation or distress caused by the consciousness of guilt or disgrace which causes people to hide or deny something they […]
Welcome to a 3 part series on: insecurities, shame and judgement. With all the things we love about the LS, the one thing we don’t like is the amount of fantasy bullshit that seems to get pushed out on social […]
We first came across Spark Erotic from our friends at Sex Uninterrupted. Somehow, on social media, we must have stumbled across a post or photo-shoot James and Taara had done with Spark. Naturally, they are a hot couple we wanted […]
