The Red Couch is where married, non-monogamous swinger couples come to explore intimacy, connection, and pleasure. With a blend of fun, honest content and real-world lifestyle reviews, we’re the go-to resource for modern couples in the lifestyle.
In the swinger lifestyle, it’s easy to get caught up in the excitement—sexy parties, meeting new couples, spontaneous playdates, and weekend getaways. While all of that is thrilling (and totally hot), one truth remains: at the heart of the lifestyle […]
Let’s be honest—vanilla is great for ice cream, but when it comes to your sex life? It gets boring fast. Far too many married couples fall into the vanilla sex trap: lights off, same position, quick finish, and back to […]
We’ve all been sold the same story: meet “the one,” get married, and live happily ever after. But here’s the hard truth—monogamy doesn’t work for everyone. For some couples, trying to force a lifetime of passion into a one-size-fits-all box […]
Let’s be real: nobody teaches you how to ask your spouse if they’re cool with inviting a third into the bedroom. There’s no “Welcome to Marriage” pamphlet with a chapter called “So You’re Curious About Ethical Non-Monogamy.” And yet here […]
Effective communication is necessary in order to have a thriving, strong relationship. Part of that communication piece is being able to express your needs, boundaries and desires openly with your partner. I can’t tell you how many couples we come […]
Sexual arousal is a complex and multifaceted experience that can vary greatly from person to person. While it is often assumed that men are the more sexually-driven gender, research suggests that women can experience just as much sexual desire and […]
We recently took a little poll with our Facebook friends and asked the men who follow us a question: What are your top sexual turn ons? We were kind of surprised by the things that men said turn them on. […]
All couples have heated discussions or arguments. In fact, if you are in a relationship that doesn’t experience disagreements, arguments or fights in your relationship then there might be a lack of honest, open communication somewhere. We call bullshit on […]
TRC: Share w/ us about yourselves. Mr and Mrs J: We are high school sweethearts. Been together for just over 21 years, married for 14. We have a 7 year old son. Our daytime professions are that of a teacher and an […]
If you’re a parent that has kids you realize one thing pretty quick – kids are the ringmasters of fun. Having fun is the only thing you live for as a kid and should be incorporated into your relationship every […]
