The Red Couch is where married, non-monogamous swinger couples come to explore intimacy, connection, and pleasure. With a blend of fun, honest content and real-world lifestyle reviews, we’re the go-to resource for modern couples in the lifestyle.
Handling Rejection with Class in the Lifestyle — and Why It Matters The swinger lifestyle is full of exciting connections, sexy possibilities, and unforgettable nights—but it also comes with its fair share of human moments. One of the trickiest? Learning […]
Walking into your first swinger party (or even your tenth) can be equal parts thrilling and nerve-wracking. You’re surrounded by sexy strangers, sensual energy, and endless possibilities—but what do you actually say to get the night started? At The Red […]
Swinger Etiquette: The Unwritten Rules for a Positive Lifestyle Experience Thinking about entering the swinger lifestyle? Whether you’re a curious couple or ready to attend your first event, knowing the rules of swinger etiquette is essential for a fun, sexy, […]
How to Dress for the Occasion at Swinger Events: Confidence, Comfort & Style When it comes to swinger party outfits, there’s one golden rule: dress to express, impress, and feel your best. Whether you’re stepping into a private house party, […]
Effective communication is necessary in order to have a thriving, strong relationship. Part of that communication piece is being able to express your needs, boundaries and desires openly with your partner. I can’t tell you how many couples we come […]
Another one of our long over due reviews on the Phoenix lifestyle scene. To be honest, since we’ve been in Phoenix, we haven’t had the opportunity to get to too many parties and events as frequent as we’d like to. […]
Happy 2024! We hope our readers and followers had an amazing 2024. It seems like it’s been a rough one for a lot of people, so if you’re like us and found a few things challenging, we are with you! […]
Sexual arousal is a complex and multifaceted experience that can vary greatly from person to person. While it is often assumed that men are the more sexually-driven gender, research suggests that women can experience just as much sexual desire and […]
We have an Onlyfans page. Why? For fun. We had heard the hype about how much money you can make on Onlyfans as a swinger couple, so we decided to set one up a couple years back, only to delete […]
We’ve heard this term thrown around a bit in fetish and lifestyle circles, so we wanted to do some research to better understand what exactly a Hedonist is. The simplest definition of a hedonist, is someone who believes that the […]