Let’s be real: nobody teaches you how to ask your spouse if they’re cool with inviting a third into the bedroom.

There’s no “Welcome to Marriage” pamphlet with a chapter called “So You’re Curious About Ethical Non-Monogamy.” And yet here we are—grown-ass adults with years of partnership under our belts, lying awake at night wondering… “How the hell do I bring this up without ruining everything?”

That’s exactly why we created The Conversation Guide: How to Talk to Your Partner About Opening Up Your Relationship.

Because we’ve been there.
Before we ever explored the lifestyle, we had no idea how to talk about it. We danced around our fantasies. We were scared of sounding selfish or broken. And let’s not even talk about the years of religious programming that made pleasure feel like a sin that needed therapy and a baptism.

Eventually, we got brave.
We started small. We got curious.
And what followed was the most honest, intimate, and hot transformation our relationship had ever seen.

So if you’re standing at the edge of that same cliff—we got you.

Why Ethical Non-Monogamy Isn’t Just About Sex
Sure, the sex part is fun (obviously).
But at its core, ethical non-monogamy is about communication, clarity, and consent.

And whether you end up in a throuple, a swinger party, or just laugh it off with a “never mind”—you deserve to have the conversation from a place of confidence, not panic.

Unfortunately, most people go about it like this:

“Hey babe, how do you feel about… you know… a threesome?”

No. No no no. Hard no.

Let’s save you from that awkward dinner table meltdown.

So What’s In the Guide?
Think of it like a roadmap—without the preachy vibe or the 300-page fluff.

Exactly what to say and what NOT to say when bringing up non-monogamy

How to ask for a threesome without sounding like a walking midlife crisis

The best times (and worst times) to start the convo

What to do if your partner says “no” (and how not to take it personally)

Real-life examples from people who’ve lived it—and lived to tell the tale

It’s honest.
It’s practical.
It’s a little sarcastic.
And it’s the guide we wish we had before we ever tiptoed into the “so I’ve been thinking…” moment.

One Conversation Can Change Everything
Listen—we’re not here to tell you how to live.
Some couples will read the guide and decide they’re happy keeping it monogamous but way more open emotionally. Others might use it as a launchpad for lifestyle adventures, new connections, or simply a deeper understanding of their partner’s desires.

Either way, what matters most is that the conversation actually happens.

Because nothing kills intimacy faster than silence.
And nothing builds it faster than truth.

Ready to Start Talking?
If you’ve ever said, “I just wish I had the words,”
now you do.

👇 Grab The Conversation Guide
📘 Click here to download

You only get one first conversation—might as well make it one you’ll both remember.