Our Top 5 Swinger Website Reviews

Our Top 5 Best Swinger Websites

 

When the wife and I first started our sexual revolution in our marriage I went ballistic! I had been hoping for this day to come for so long, I finally had permission to investigate all the perverted dreams I had of sharing my wife with others. Needless to say, I was happy as a lark. I also signed up for each and every swinger website I could find.

As a web designer, boy was I surprised at the lack of usability that I found. The websites I discovered were not much different than the ones I signed up for in the 90’s as a single male! To help you navigate through the muddy perverted waters of the online world, we put together this top 5 list of swinger websites we enjoy, the good, bad and ugly!

#1. Kasidie https://www.kasidie.com

Kasidie is probably our favorite website out of all of them. It’s beautifully designed, easy to use and there are plenty of people on the website. It seems like membership to Kasidie is growing month after month. Kasidie reminds us of a Facebook profile for swingers. There is a wall to be able to post pictures, status updates and links. The photo feature displays clearly and you can classify photos in various security rankings. Kasidie also has a pretty robust group feature, parties and events listing.

Just checked and Kasidie has a pretty dope mobile version too! We’ve never used it on mobile, but with a growing mobile usage population, this is important. I’m trying to look for something bad to say about Kasidie, but I can’t really think of anything! If Kasidie keeps up it’s expansion and stays on top of the trends, it will smash the competition in a heartbeat.

Monthly Membership: $19.95/mo

#2 Lifestyle Lounge https://www.lifestylelounge.com/

This site seems to be the biggest and baddest of all websites. When we first signed up for LL it was super ancient. It seems like they are offering a beta version that will be more user friendly and mobile friendly. What we liked about LL was that it had a large following and plenty of profiles to search from. LL has a “booty call” option that allows you to post a last minute hook up for a limited amount of time or if you might be traveling to another state and want to meet up. The video feature sucks as it will only show a horizontal slider of the most recent 5 videos. No way to search or filter videos or pictures.

We found it easy to search and message other couples we were interested in meeting up with. You can display public pictures, private pictures and then secure pictures that are only available to people that have a security code you provide them with. We actually met our first couple on LL! This is probably the “go to” swinger website out there.

Monthly Membership: $24/mo

#3 Swing Lifestyle (SLS) https://www.swinglifestyle.com/

Swing Lifestyle ranks at #3 on our list because of the amount of people that seem to sign up. There aren’t that many monster swinger websites out there, so I suppose it’s not that hard to compete. There are many issues we have with SLS. We used to be very active on SLS due to the fact that they let you set up a limited profile feature that allowed you to message up to 5 people per day for free. Since recent legislation trying to fight human trafficking, that feature has been taken away and now SLS is very strict on a paid only subscription. They are also very picky about listing any outside forms of communication in your profile (kik, Facebook etc…)

We love using SLS to keep up with local events and parties. It’s the main reason we stay on SLS. SLS also has a “hot date” feature just like LL does. You can post a last minute ad looking for a booty call or meet n greet that will expire within 24 hours. We’ve used that feature a couple times when we had the occasional free night to play. Messaging people and searching was very easy and we were able to find several great connections from the website. It’s a little bulky to navigate through, as the photo feature isn’t that great. The pics we upload are blurry until you click through to view them on full screen mode.

Also, make sure you choose to turn off the live chat feature. It’s shit and you’ll keep getting random notifications from single guys wanting to chat.

Monthly Membership: $14.95/mo

#4 Swing Date Club (SDC)  www.sdc.com

SDC is probably the last on our list of preferable swing websites. It’s not that it’s a bad website, in fact its pretty decent in terms of features. We especially like its video feature where you can filter by distance or recent upload. The problem with SDC seems to be the lack of membership. We have researched the newbie profile search for the last 3 months and found that there are rarely new members added to the site within the last 7 days compared to the other sites in our area. (Chicago)

Either SDC is a regional based website or people just don’t know about them. SDC has the typical website features. It’s relatively easy to search and message people. They have a active group and events section as well to stay up on local parties.

The biggest upside to SDC is that they have an app! You can download this from the Apple App Store. Not sure if it’s available on Android as we are Apple users here, but I assume so.

Monthly Membership: $24.95/mo

#5 Fetlife https://fetlife.com

Last but not least we had to mention Fetlife. Fetlife is not a swingers website per say, but it’s a kinky, fetish and BDSM website. We’ve been on Fetlife for several years and really enjoy what they are doing. Fetlife is free to join, they charge a nominal fee for certain premium features on the website like video and exploring relevant content.

The Fetlife community doesn’t like to describe itself as a dating website, but it is. Sure there are forums, groups and various places to explore on Fetlife, but its a fucking place to meet people! I don’t know why Fetlife has this “moral high ground” to think they are above being a dating website. What’s wrong with creating an environment where like minded kinksters can meet people?

Fetlife doesn’t have a search filter. You have to weed through male, female local profiles to search by city. The problem with this is that you might not be into crossdressers or trannies. So you end up trying to search within a huge pond of cluster fuck. It works though. They also remarkably don’t have a couples status for their profile. Which is a big “fuck you” to us married couples. This means both of us have to sign up and create a profile if we want to be viewed as a couple.

There are lots of hot pics on Fetlife, but beware if you’re not into kink or BDSM. There are extreme dark places on this website. If you’re not into piss, blood or people shitting on you, you have to be careful.

We’ve had the privilege of meeting several kinky couples on Fetlife that are down to swing. We also love the inclusive nature of Fetlife. If you’re open to the spectrum of alt lifestyles such as transexuals, crossdressers, bisexuality and pain sluts, this is a great place to explore.

Monthly Membership: Free. Support Fetlife with a major brand gift card. $25 = 150 days of support.

This is our top 5 but there may be others out there we haven’t discovered! We know of a couple that didn’t make the list yet, but are in development that have the looks to be front runners.

Since we started in the lifestyle we’ve found the best place to meet people has been at clubs and parties. Anyone can be anything they want online, so meeting up with couples from websites rarely work for us personally. The tons of fake profiles and single guys posing as couples are just a complete waste of time for us. We have found success meeting couples at parties where the promoters can do the vetting for us and we can just enjoy ourselves with a night out and meet real people face to face.

What are your thoughts on lifestyle websites?

2 thoughts on “Our Top 5 Swinger Website Reviews

  1. are there any particular groups or membership sites you find out about the parties hosted by the good promoters that you’d recommend? Or you mean parties/club meetings via the sites you’ve reviewed above?

    1. All of the sites mentioned have a groups/parties section you can see details on. Most groups or parties are super discreet and require a phone call vetting process. You can’t just show up.

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